20/10/68
Dear Mum, I can’t recall when I last wrote whether Ella Gerber had arrived
or not, but she came on Wednesday, and promptly set the place in disorder, by
rearranging all the schedules that had been worked out for her, and never
keeping to her own time-tables either. And though she may do the students
a lot of good in acting – she would make a marvellous play producer, she seems
to know very little about music at all, and consequently it’s very hard to make
her appreciate points that are necessary to the productions from the singers
point of view.

This weekend I didn’t go up to the Crowls as we had a rehearsal on Saturday
morning, and it wasn’t due to finish till 1.00, and that’s too late to start
tootling up there, though Reg suggested I come up a bit later. But I said
I felt perhaps I should stay home and show Kingsley round a bit of London (as
it happened he didn’t seem particularly interested when I did. He’s a
funny boy in some ways: - he seems to think I’m very reserved, particularly as
far as the opposite sex is concerned, [I was] and yet quite honestly, I
think the boot’s entirely on the other foot. Don’t mean I’m Don
Juan, but I think I’m interested in a more general outlook on life, etc. He
doesn’t drink, smoke, eat sweets or fruit, or ice-cream, doesn’t read books,
aaaagh! Seems to me to be a rather narrow sphere he’s set himself.
However there’s no use forcing things on him, but thank goodness Mike’s still
here, cynical and unpunctual as he may be, he’s at least on my wavelength.) [This
may be a bit harsh about Kingsley: he was probably just interested in things
that I wasn’t interested in!]
At 5.30 last night, I went to where Mike is at present living – Kingsley
was going to Aida – and from there we went round to Kensington
way somewhere where Norman and Doris McKinlay from Dunedin were staying and
finished off the scraps of food and drink that they wanted to get rid of before
they left today on their way home. They’ve been here about three months on a
business trip. I think. [Norman McKinlay, as I recall, was involved in
theatre in Dunedin, but wasn’t someone I knew well; he’d have been better
acquainted with Mike.] Mike and I had intended to go to a film at the
NFT at 8.45 but we didn’t get there, and so found ourselves in Oxford St at 10
or so with nothing to do. Well, we wandered down through Soho (which even
at night is only rowdy, not dangerous or anything, rather sleazy perhaps) and
called in at a pub just before closing time (11.00) and had a half of bitter
(compare Coronation St!). Mike thought that buses ran all
night so we decided to go to a late film showing, and went, and got out at
1.30, to find that buses don’t run on Saturday night for some obscure
reason. So we wended our way back to his flat which is close by, and had
a cup of coffee and a glass of brandy and ginger, to put some warmth into me,
because I’d decided to walk home. At least a good deal of the way and then get
a taxi for the last part. Well, I left Mike at 2.50 and covered something like
four miles in an hour and about 20 minutes. It’s a straight, though long walk
from Oxford St via Commercial Rd to Plaistow. And wound up getting a taxi for
the last couple of miles and arriving home about 4.30 a little tired! But
actually it was quite an enjoyable night, just relaxed, and with nothing
special to do. Mike and I are like brothers now, I feel [handwritten],
we accept each other’s faults because we’ve known each other so long and just
enjoy what’s left of each other’s company. Luv Mike.
[From Oxford St to Newman Rd in Plaistow, via Commercial Rd, is about
seven and a half miles. Google reckons it would take about two and a half
hours walking. Perhaps I was following in Charles Dickens’ footsteps: he often
went for long walks at night, anything up to twenty miles!]